Masculinity

I have not personally experienced the mask of masculinity. I think the media plays alot of roles showing men how to be masculine and discourage them to not be masculine by calling them gay,pussy, ect. I think the media shows this alot in movies and on t.v. A lot of the time, there will be movies about a boy being bullied and then they will get tough and will fight the bullier. I think that fights are lame and don't prove that you are masculine. In a lot of media, in order to be m,asculine, you have to be controling and I think that sends out a bad message to people. I think this leads to husbands abusing their wives and I think its so sad.